Umamin sina Donny Pangilinan at Belle Mariano na may nakita silang red flags sa isa’t isa.
Halata mang nahirapang sumagot nang matanong, nagpakatotoo ang tanyag na Kapamilya onscreen partners.
Sa halos araw-araw na sila ay magkasama, nakilala na raw nila ang isa’t isa at nakita ang ugali ng bawat isa—maganda man o hindi.
Sa tanong kung may nakita silang red flags sa isa’t isa, sagot ni Donny, “Siyempre, may nakita kami, di ba…
“But it’s not the type of red flag na ayaw mo nang makasama or ganun.
“Siguro it’s the type of red flag na…. people really would have it, like, at times yung usual stuff like, for me…”
Animo’y sumaklolo si Belle kay Donny, na nag-aatubili sa pagsagot.
Ayon sa young acress, “Alam ko yung sa yo. Sasabihin ko.
“Umiinit ang ulo niya kapag di siya kumakain.”
“Ikaw rin, ah!” natatawang sagot ng aktor sa kanyang leading lady.
Humarap sina Donny at Belle sa media at vloggers sa mediacon ng How To Spot A Red Flag na ginanap nitong January 21, 2025.
Ang TV series ay magsisimulang ipalabas sa ABS-CBN primetime sa darating na January 27, 2025.
Una na itong naipalabas sa streaming platform na Viu.
RED FLAGS THAT ARE NOT ALARMING
May idinagdag si Donny tungkol sa tingin niya ay red flag sa sarili.
Aniya, “Or pag walang tulog nagiging [bugnutin]… parang ganun.
“So, hindi na ako masyadong nakikinig sa mga nangyari kasi I have to be in one spot lang. And then easily triggered, yung ganon…”
Muling iginiit ni Donny na normal ang pagkakaroon ng red flags ninuman.
Sa kanila raw nila ni Belle, ang importante ay napag-uusapan nila ito nang maayos at hindi ikasisira ng kanilang samahan.
Paliwanag ni Donny, “Everyone has it, and it’s all about communication.
“As long as it’s not to a point na you guys are already hurting each other, you can’t be with each other anymore, you can’t work with each other, you can’t see each other…
“That’s when it’s unhealthy.
“But the type of red flags we have, we talk about it and we go through them.”
Pagsegunda ni Belle. “We communicate openly.
”Lahat naman tayo may red flags.
“Minsan nga hindi tayo aware na may mga red flags tayo, di ba? Tayo mismo.”
Sinang-ayunan din ni Belle ang sinabi ni Donny na depende kung gaano kalaki ang impact ng red flag.
Halata sa sagot ng dalawa na ang sinasabi nilang red flag ng isa’t isa ay mga di magandang katangiang kaya nilang palampasin at hindi na kailangang umabot pa sa pagkasira ng kanilang samahan at sa trabaho.
Dagdag ni Donny, “Lahat naman tayo we have some form of red flag inside of us. Lahat naman tayo, di ba? Wala namang perpektong tao.”
Paliwanag ng aktor, marahil ang red flag ng isang tao ay may pinagmumulan. Ito raw ang napagtanto niya habang ginagawa ang How To Spot A Red Flag.
Sabi ni Donny, “I think I saw it more here in the show na before seeing a person as a flag, you have to understand that they went through a lot of stuff, which is why they got to that point.”
Sundot ni Belle, “There are no bad people. People are just doing decisions because of their bad situations or bad experiences.”
DONBELLE ASKED ABOUT EACH OTHER’S GREEN FLAGs
Nausisa rin ang kilalang loveteam kung ano ang nakikita nilang green flags sa isa’t isa.
Si Belle ang unang sumagot, at sinabing ang kanyang leading man ay “such a gentleman, family-oriented.”
Dagdag niya, “My favorite thing about you, you’re so game with anything.”
Kasama si Donny, maraming bagay raw na natutunan si Belle na mga bagong bagay, tulad ng billiards at surfing, na kailangan sa paggawa nila ng projects.
Sabi naman ni Donny pagdating sa green flag ni Belle, “You always find a way to kind of reinvent yourself.
“Hindi kasi madali yung after one project, we do another project, and another project. You have to think about how do you make this character different.
“Minsan baka dahil nagiging comfortable kami sa isa’t isa, baka same lang yung atake namin, di ba? Dapat ibang level of DonBelle naman yung makikita nila.
“So Belle is always trying to do things that will portray something else in her character and her craft.”
In the world of relationships, the presence of red flags can often be a telltale sign that not everything is as it seems. When public figures like Donny and Belle, a couple known for their charisma and seemingly perfect relationship, admit to seeing these warning signs in each other, it sends ripples through their fan base and the media. Their candid admission not only offers a glimpse into the complexities of their bond but also serves as a reminder that even the most polished relationships can have their share of challenges.
Donny and Belle first captured the public’s attention with their chemistry and mutual support, which seemed to defy the odds in an industry known for its high turnover in relationships. They met through their mutual passion for music and quickly became inseparable, both professionally and personally. Their journey from friends to partners was chronicled through social media, where they shared moments of joy, creativity, and even the occasional silly mishap. However, behind the scenes, both Donny and Belle were beginning to notice subtle signs that their relationship wasn’t as idyllic as it appeared to the outside world.
The first red flag Donny noticed was Belle’s tendency to withdraw emotionally during stressful times. “I realized that when things got tough, she would shut down and retreat into herself,” Donny shared in a recent interview. “It was a stark contrast to the open and communicative person I thought I knew.” This behavior left Donny feeling isolated and unsure of how to support her effectively. Belle, on the other hand, found Donny’s need for constant validation and reassurance to be overwhelming. “I felt like I was walking on eggshells, trying to make sure he was always happy and secure,” she admitted. “It was exhausting.”
These early signs of discord were often overshadowed by the couple’s public image, which they both felt pressure to maintain. “We were seen as this perfect couple, and I think we both fell into the trap of trying to live up to that expectation,” Belle explained. This pressure created a cycle where they would put on a happy face for their fans and colleagues while suppressing their true feelings and concerns. Over time, this dynamic began to erode their trust and intimacy, leading to more pronounced red flags.
One of the most significant red flags for both Donny and Belle was the lack of mutual respect in their arguments. “We would get into these heated debates where neither of us would listen to the other,” Donny said. “It felt like we were talking past each other, and the respect we once had started to fade.” Belle echoed this sentiment, adding, “Arguments would escalate quickly, and I found myself saying things I didn’t mean out of frustration.” This pattern of communication not only strained their relationship but also made it difficult for them to address deeper issues constructively.
Another red flag was the imbalance in their relationship dynamics. Donny, being more outgoing and extroverted, often took the lead in social situations, while Belle, who is more introverted, sometimes felt overshadowed. “I love Donny, but sometimes I felt like his personality dominated ours,” Belle shared. “It made me question whether I was losing myself in the relationship.” Donny, in turn, struggled with the responsibility of being the de facto spokesperson for their partnership. “I wanted to support her, but I also felt like I had to be the strong one all the time,” he said. This imbalance created a sense of tension and resentment that neither could ignore.
Despite these challenges, Donny and Belle initially tried to work through their issues privately. They sought the help of a couples therapist, who helped them identify and address some of the underlying causes of their conflicts. “Therapy was eye-opening,” Belle said. “It forced us to be honest with each other and ourselves about what we needed and what we were willing to accept.” Donny agreed, adding, “We learned that communication is key, and that it’s okay to have disagreements as long as we handle them with respect and empathy.”
However, the road to healing was not without its setbacks. There were moments when old patterns resurfaced, and both Donny and Belle found themselves struggling to break free from the negative cycles. “There were times when I thought we were making progress, only to have an argument that felt like we were back at square one,” Donny confessed. Belle added, “It was a rollercoaster, but we kept reminding ourselves why we fell in love in the first place and what we wanted for our future.”
Their decision to go public with their struggles was a turning point. By sharing their experiences, Donny and Belle hoped to break the stigma surrounding relationship issues and encourage others to seek help when needed. “We realized that by being transparent, we could not only help ourselves but also inspire others to be more honest in their relationships,” Belle explained. The response from their fans and the broader community was overwhelmingly supportive, with many praising their勇气 and vulnerability.
In the wake of their public admission, Donny and Belle have taken steps to rebuild their relationship on a foundation of mutual respect and open communication. They have set boundaries, established healthier patterns of interaction, and prioritized each other’s emotional needs. “We’re not perfect, and we still have our ups and downs, but we’re committed to growing together,” Donny said. Belle added, “It’s not about erasing the red flags we saw; it’s about learning from them and becoming stronger as a result.”
Their journey serves as a powerful reminder that relationships are complex and require ongoing effort and communication. By acknowledging and addressing the red flags, Donny and Belle have not only strengthened their bond but also provided a valuable lesson for others. “If we can navigate these challenges, anyone can,” Belle concluded. As they move forward, their story continues to resonate with those who understand that love, while beautiful, is also a continuous process of growth and self-discovery.
In the end, Donny and Belle’s willingness to confront their red flags has not only transformed their relationship but also offered a beacon of hope to others navigating similar challenges. Their story is a testament to the power of honesty, vulnerability, and the unwavering commitment to making a relationship work, even in the face of adversity.
